The circumstances whether they are good or bad they come on their own and they disappear on their own.+

Everyone has a story of success and failure. Everyone is most interested in sharing their stories of success and failure with others.   People think that their success story can be applied to others who are less fortunate in their life to get success. Thus, they try to impose their idea of success on others by propagating their success story.  But they are failures in recognizing the truth, because they are unaware of the fact that, their success story is based on the false self within the false experience.    

Not everyone becomes Bill Gates if they adopt his life skills. Everyone’s life circumstances are different. The circumstances whether they are good or bad come on their own and they disappear on their own.  Positive thinking only helps one to move ahead in time thinking and hallucinating the bright future, but the results may be favorable or unfavorable. Circumstances arise not because of their individual conduct or action.

The recent earthquake and tsunami in Japan affected many successful people. Many successful people lost their dear ones and wealth. All these circumstances of life come and go on their own. When the circumstances are favorable life goes on smoothly. But in unfavorable circumstances, life becomes very hard and miserable. And there are also mixed circumstances which make us happy and also miserable. 

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If a successful person becomes a failure in his dream and a failure person becomes a successful person in his dream, their dream becomes unreal when the waking takes place. In the same way, the waking also becomes unreal when one becomes aware of the fact that, the Self is neither the waking entity nor the dream entity.  

Whatever one sees, knows, believes, and experiences within the waking or dream experience is a falsehood.  Therefore, Self-Realization is necessary to realize “what is the truth?” and “what is untruth?”.

Favorable circumstances do not arise because of one’s positivity. And because of positive thinking, the circumstances will not change. Painful experiences of the past and fear of the future make one think negatively. Thinking positively helps to keep away the future fear in the present nothing more. 

Thus, one has to understand and realize the fact that, these positive and negative circumstances do not depend on his doership because they arise on their own and they disappear on their own.

In life,  everything happens on its own. No one can plan it. We did not plan our birth, it just happened. In the same way, our life is a package of unknown circumstances everything is happening on its own, whether they are good or bad.  In the past, some sages introduced the concept of God to cast the burden of worldly suffering so that everyone can divert their attention to the imaginary entity by indulging in prayers, worship, and orthodoxy,  and crossing the ocean of this worldly suffering. Thus, the mass followed it and passed it from one generation to the next. So everyone inherited blind beliefs and they imposed on their children and indulge in priestcraft without verifying the validity of their own inherited belief system.  

The truth is hidden by orthodoxy in the name of protecting their God and their religion is meant for those who are incapable of thinking deeply about their own existence and also it helps the people to adopt certain disciplines, morals, and ethics in the society with its code of conduct. Love was a religious tool it helps society to a certain extent.  

Love and hate co-exist. People talk of love because they are deprived of it. It is impossible to love everyone. It is easy to say but difficult to practice in worldly life because everyone loves their own ego. Thus, this egoic love is temporary because the ego is a false self within the false experience.     

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People have the notion that the more and more they gratify their senses for attaining worldly pleasures, the happier they will be is not true at all, because they think the physical Self is the real Self, therefore they are unaware of the fact that the Self is not physical,  but  Self is formless consciousness. Consciousness can stay with or without waking or dream.   

Thus, it is time to realize their pleasure and suffering are limited to the waking experience, which is a falsehood.

It is the illusory sense-pleasure that is responsible for the forgetfulness of the Self, which is in the form of consciousness, which results in one’s sorrows and sufferings.

Suffering is the reminder to search for the remedy to overcome the suffering caused by the ignorance of the true Self. Pleasure is the cause of ignorance, but if the real Self is realized, then,  the illusion will not prevail as a reality. :~Santthosh Kumaar